Self-Love, Erotica,TantricSex, Sacred Sex

Self-love is a connection to our bodies and to our deepest selves.

All sex, solo or partnered, should be act of self-love.

Sometimes, masturbation is a means to an end. It’s a great way to discharge stress and relax, it releases feel-good endorphins, and it can alleviate menstrual cramps for women.

It is also a radical act of self-love.

For people who have shame, and fear-based learning around sexuality, for folks with sexual trauma in their past, and for anyone living in our shame-based culture around sexuality, self-love is a step in the journey toward self-exploration and self-nurturing.

Self-love equals better sex; it’s a connection to our bodies and to our deepest selves.

 So enjoy, Frisky Followers. I hope these tips have inspired you to be a soldier of self-love, and to re-invigorate your self-pleasure routine. I’d love to hear your thoughts, comments or reflections on these tips, as well as hear about the ways you keep your solo sex life spicy!

For ease of navigation we included the links below:

Introduction - Tip 1 - Tip 2 - Tip 3 - Tip 4 - Tip 5 - Tip 6 - Tip 7

All sex, solo or partnered, should be act of self-love. Sometimes, masturbation is a means to an end. It’s a great way to discharge stress and relax, it releases feel-good endorphins, and it can alleviate menstrual cramps for women. It … Continue reading

masturbation techniques

Keep things interesting!

Are you in a vibrator rut? Do you have to replace the batteries in your pocket rocket once a week? You may be in a solo-sex slump.

When we get into fixed routines for our self-pleasure, our body begins to expect a certain kind of stimulation. This may mean that it becomes more difficult reach orgasm once that type of stimulation isn’t available.

By varying your self-love routine, you open yourself up to experiencing more pleasure all around. Ladies, hide your vibe; gentlemen keep your stroker in the drawer.  Go manual for the evening. Or, try a non-vibrating toy and spend some QT with your g-spot or p-spot.

Whatever your routine is, mix it up and reap the rewards!

For ease of navigation we included the links below:

Introduction - Tip 1 - Tip 2 - Tip 3 - Tip 4 - Tip 5 - Tip 6 - Tip 7

Are you in a vibrator rut? Do you have to replace the batteries in your pocket rocket once a week? You may be in a solo-sex slump. When we get into fixed routines for our self-pleasure, our body begins to … Continue reading

anal butt plugs

a Truly HOT SINsation!

Once considered taboo, we now know that the anus and surrounding tissues are teeming with pleasure sensors and nerve endings.

Anal plugs increase pleasurable sensation during masturbation. Adding a little bit of anal stimulation can also lead to increased sensitivity and pleasure during both clitoral as well as penile stimulation.

Try adding an anal plug or prostate massager to your masturbation routine (don’t forget the lube!) and then masturbate with your hand or a toy. When the nerve endings around your anus are awake and stimulated, your orgasms will be more powerful and more pleasurable!

For ease of navigation we included the links below:

Introduction - Tip 1 - Tip 2 - Tip 3 - Tip 4 - Tip 5 - Tip 6 - Tip 7

Once considered taboo, we now know that the anus and surrounding tissues are teeming with pleasure sensors and nerve endings. Anal plugs increase pleasurable sensation during masturbation. Adding a little bit of anal stimulation can also lead to increased sensitivity … Continue reading